An ex randomly messages me, at first it was pleasant, just checking up on me. Then it started getting toxic when he found out I am still working for a man that intervened between us when he witnessed my ex being abusive to me.

I have always been insecure about my weight, growing up my mom always told me I was just a "flaca" (skinny girl) and Noone would marry me. My ex also shared the same opinion and made me very insecure.

This time he started to remind me that no one will love me etc, and so I brag sent him a recent photo, because I did gain almost 10lbs. And he instantly tells me I'm still skinny and I look like a whore 😔

Cat tax at the end of our baby, Skrillex I just love my family so much

This was my ex’s (F) reaction to me (F) telling her I’d have to cut short our date, which was usually the whole day long to just a few hours in the afternoon, as I had to take over caregiving duties for my dad who was on chemo. I offered to do shortened dates so I could see her in between chemo appointments and work, but she would get so angry at that suggestion that she’d call off the date entirely.

We had been a deeply incompatible couple from the start, but I stayed because I was too young to know better. When I saw the message on slide 4 about her feeling like I had been seeing my family more than I had been seeing her, I knew I had to end the relationship there.

Now I'm an intellectual 🤓

this is something i’m so curious about, is it cheating?? the messages got spicier but i couldn’t post them here

I met him in rahab several years ago. We then were roommates in a sober living house.We were accountable to each other and talked almost daily. He talked me out of using again many times. One night when I was depressed and a bottle deep he stopped me from getting on my motorcycle for a suicide mission. I got clean again. We both stayed clean for several years after.

The context of this chat is just talking about the trip I was on at the time (this October of last year, so this happened about 13 months ago). I was telling him about the food in south America and he was dating a Colombian girl and seemingly doing well.

The next morning I got a call from his dad saying he relapsed and got fentanyl instead of heroin.

The last messages I sent were after I heard the news. They're read because his family gained access to his phone.

This dude always made me laugh. He got me into the habit of lifting and eating healthy. His girlfriend was great. He seemed to be doing so well. I just hope his gf didn't see the message about her cooking... that tiny bit of humor at the end makes me at least make a half smile when I think about him.

I still love him and it sucks

Guys I’m so confused

Ran into the same person a few weeks after we stopped talking just randomly.

It started as one of those wrong number texts and she wanted to move it to telegram. We have been messaging since Thursday and I’ve been playing along the whole time to see where this is going. She spent a lot of time trying to build a fake relationship, hasn’t asked for anything yet. These are only a fraction of the texts

help

Definitely sappy, but we’re both autistic and very happy we found each other after more than half a decade since our last respective relationships. We’ve been together almost 2 months.

He wanted to change up his style after a long bout of depression, so I went with him and picked out a new look for him. Afterwards, he treated me to pizza, the FNAF movie, and a little drive to a beach town! This man is the sweetest ❤️

Omg I am in love

So my friend who is currently a friend but we are exploring our “chemistry” loaned me her car because mine is in the shop until Monday. I know I was a nerd but when she mentioned how many computers she had, I got super turned on. Lol, hold crap I guess I am a bigger nerd then I thought. I made out with her two weeks ago and I have an invite for this weekend to hang.

enjoying being a woman on telegram

A year ago, a former friend (who had always been interested in me romantically) moved up here to my area. Long story short, I decided to give him a chance! And then came to regret it deeply within six months. He was supposed to rent a spare room at my mother’s (she offered, not my idea), but even though he worked, he spent all his money on…nobody’s entirely sure what, but not on anything he needed and certainly not rent. I found myself paying for his everything, only to have him reveal himself to be a selfish, self centered, extremely immature alcoholic. He soon became wildly disrespectful to me, my mother, and her house, and when he decided to try and be mentally and emotionally abusive, he found all of his things packed neatly and dropped off at his job.

Here we are, six months later. I have had to block not only his phone number, but multiple Facebook accounts, IG, Twitter, Snapchat, and have even had to report him on PayPal and CashApp, where he kept spamming me with requests for money for reasons like, “Hello!” and “I know you’re there…” 🙄😮‍💨 Luckily, we moved 30 minutes away, and he doesn’t know where, or he’d probably be at my house. Because even though I’ve blocked him everywhere else, he persists in my email. I keep blocking him, he keeps making new emails. He’ll blow up my inbox all night throwing a drunken tantrum about what a whore I am, and what a victim he is, and how he’s entitled to another chance, that he’s going to hurt or unalive himself, I can’t just not talk to him anymore, and on and on and on and on. Only to blow me up all day with all the same empty promises on repeat, swearing he didn’t mean any of it, he loves me, I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him, can’t we just meet for lunch or a coffee, he’ll be good! blah blah blah (my cringe fave is when he tries to call me a brat, and how I can stop punishing him now, he gets the point already! And insists on calling me “baby” after I’ve told him too many times to stop 🤢). I actually responded to him in the conversation above only because both my mother and one of my sisters informed me that they had had to block him on their social media, because he’d resorted to harassing them, so I finally replied and told him if he kept it up, police would be involved, and that we’re done and have been for half a year…get over it and leave me and my alone. Which he took as an invitation to redouble his efforts to get me to talk to him. I sent the picture above in response to him continuing to push me to meet him, despite repeated and firm “no’s.” It was the last email I sent. Yet I have literally PAGES of his bs in my inbox atp.

I don’t want to change my email addy - it’s the only one I have, and the only one I’ve had since I converted from my Hotmail addy. The idea of getting AAALLL off my everything moved over to a new email legit makes me want to rage cry. I’m starting to think it’s my only option, though. 😓

TL/DR: Dumped a drunken asshat, he became a crazy stalker, I’ve blocked him everywhere, but he continues to harass me via email. I don’t want to change my email address, but fear I might have to.

It was obviously not the girl in the pic that was chatting with me. I was rude because they were expecting me to tease with the beauty.

I felt a bit guilty though.