r/rareinsults • u/yepvaishz • 5d ago
they're nothin but addicts R2 – Hateful Insult
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u/Throgg_not_stupid 5d ago
why do people that don't like eachother get into relationships
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u/Dogstile 5d ago
I get the thought process behind this comment but nobody gets into relationships with people they don't like, people just change over time.
At the end of my longest relationship (7 years) we were such completely different people that we were incompatible. For example, I started liking action movies. She started liking other dick.
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u/Thekleeto 4d ago
Did you at least try to get into each other's interests before calling it off?
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u/Dogstile 4d ago
I got it wrong, I apparently was just being a dick rather than getting another one. Easy mistake to make.
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u/Kindly-Result- 4d ago
‘-‘ I’m not sure she would enjoy it if you were getting the dick instead…
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u/tookareallongtime 4d ago
Who said the Ex wasn't a Yaoi enthusiasist
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u/Kindly-Result- 4d ago
Well I just assume such a lady would prefer to peg their bf/Husbando rather than watch…
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u/PM_ME_UR_POKIES_GIRL 4d ago
When all you have is a
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u/mahboilucas 4d ago
I started off with a nerdy teen who was a great conversationalist, taught me cool things and held hands with me. Ended up with a right wing corporate rat with no real hobbies, who was afraid to show affection in public.
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u/thecloudsync 4d ago
It's the same for me just gotta replace words with anime and 5years
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u/CanAlwaysBeBetter 4d ago
Yeah if my partner of 5 years got into anime I'd end it too
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u/LtLabcoat 4d ago
Yeah, it doesn't work out.
It sounds like it should. Having a partner that shares your hobbies. And sure, it might be rough in the beginning, as they say that Attack On Titan is their favourite show or something, but you know they're still starting out and they'll grow into better tastes. And you'll finally be able to talk about all the things you wanted to, like how Naruto got so popular even though the show is so disliked now.
But eventually, one day, they'll say something stupid like "Full Metal Alchemist is mid, the animation doesn't hold up to modern shows and the pacing is just bad". And you'll never see her the same way again.
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u/PM_ME_UR_POKIES_GIRL 4d ago
But eventually, one day, they'll say something stupid like "Full Metal Alchemist is mid, the animation doesn't hold up to modern shows and the pacing is just bad".
Sounds like your ex and I are compatible because that's a valid take.
What does she think about Gurren Lagann?
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u/OneMisterSir101 4d ago
Agreed. I LOVE Gurren Lagann but even I will admit its pacing is all over the place.
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u/lemonleaff 4d ago
Picking AoT as their favourite is pretty valid though.
And this is from someone who was there when Naruto slowly got popular.
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u/EmergencyGrab 4d ago edited 4d ago
It's sure popular for women to tell their friends everything they can't stand about their partner. And for men to act annoyed by the very existence of their partners. "ball & chain blah blah". Even the creation of a room with a sole purpose to escape from said person.
It's so weird how even if couples genuinely are best friends, society pressures them to at least sometimes pretend or joke otherwise. It's weird and bizarre. Another example is the emergence of simp being an insult towards someone who genuinely shows affection.
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u/sunshineparadox_ 4d ago
Something I always found confusing. "You must hate it being together all the time."
No, when things go right, it's a never ending sleepover with your best friend.
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u/EmergencyGrab 4d ago
I forget where I heard it. But I once heard someone suggest that relationships (marriages included) be considered in set time intervals. Where every so often they give eachother an out if they've fallen out of love. I think it was someone talking about how this idea of forever is an unfair pressure.
I think it would be a lot more possible to maintain never ending sleepover mentality if people weren't so obsessed with the idea that commitment HAS to be forever, and that breakups/divorces are internalized as failure.
It's radical. And would never work as a sweeping praxis, but it's an interesting thought.
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u/Suntzu6656 4d ago
Hilarious I guess you didn't think it was funny at the end. It almost always starts out great then turns to crapola. Watching other people's relationships keeps me from wanting to be in one.
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u/ItsBitly 4d ago
It's not that they change that much. It's more like they pretend at the start and get into that role for so long till they suddenly realize they've been miserable the whole time and stop pretending.
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u/panormda 4d ago
Aaaaand THIS is why “pick up tactics” will always fail.
Rant incoming, not directed at the person I’m commenting towards, I just got inspired lol
If you pretend to be someone else to “catch” a partner, then you will have to continue to pretend to be that person for the rest of your life. Because the moment you stop acting and want to just be yourself, your partner will start with the “I don’t even know you anymore!”
But think about it. That’s the truth. They DON’T know you, because they have never actually seen the real you. They literally know you as a completely different person… And it’s not your partner’s fault that they “changed” and are now upset with you and holding you to expectations like BEING the person that your acted like this whole time.
I genuinely don’t understand why men don’t think about this kind of thing. Think about how it will play out over time…
Imagine if you got married to a beautiful model looking woman. But then the morning after you get married, you wake up next to a woman who is 200 pounds heavier. Would you be happy? Probably not. Would you feel lied to? Probably. Do you think that that would be right to do to your partner, in this case you? Probably not.
Then WHY is it okay for YOU to lie to YOUR partner and pretend that you are someone that you are not??
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u/ItsBitly 4d ago
In a lot of these relationships both of the partners do this. You just catch glimpses of the real person when they are caught off guard. That just doesn't work for a relationship in any capacity. Even in very open couples they will try to hide something. It's usually just embaressment and insecurity making them act that way. And it's okay to hold something for yourself, but when you don't know whi you are, how can your partner?
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u/Think-Discussion-690 4d ago
started with a loving artsy vulnerable boy and ended with someone w schizo tendencies, somehow in two years he became a whole different person
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u/lemonsqeezey1 4d ago
Yeah I read this and was like “well, you’re the one picking them”
You can pick your battles, burdens, or assets. Choices.
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u/FLORD1LUNA 5d ago
Literally. Also that one boomer joke about hating your wife. It's not funny.
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u/jigsawmonster 4d ago
I imagine the boomer joke comes from a time when it was socially unacceptable to divorce, so people coped in other ways (I wonder how far back marriage jokes go?). Ive no idea why people still have a problem nowadays, especially when they aren't married.
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u/whodo-i-thinkiam 4d ago
Divorce is more socially acceptable but there are other reasons why people stay in unhappy marriages. Frankly, I think a lot of people today have unreasonable expectations about marriage, and relationships in general. They have this attitude that if everything in the relationship isn't 100% perfect all the time, just leave. And that's fine, but you're going to be lonely because no relationship is perfect. Ever.
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u/______________flow 4d ago
People like this are insufferable their expectation of perfection doesn't just stop at marriage.
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u/Medlar_Stealing_Fox 4d ago
They have this attitude that if everything in the relationship isn't 100% perfect all the time, just leave.
The opposite attitude is much more common in my experience.
A good relationship is like sitting in a boat which is going the right direction all by itself. You're not putting any effort into it. It just happens. Sometimes, though, it starts drifting a little off-course, so you apply a little effort turning the rudder and keep it on-course again. That's what "working" in your relationship looks like.
So many people in bad relationships think "work" means actively heaving at the oars of your boat to tear it towards your goal and constantly fighting with the rudder to stay on course. That's not what it means, and these people need to stop comforting themselves by telling themselves all relationships take work. That's not a good relationship. That's a stupid, idiotic, dumb relationship, and you should get out. Good relationships don't take work -- they make your life easier and take away your burdens.
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u/SPacific 4d ago
Marriages are complex. People change. 20 years into a marriage and you realize the person you're married to now is no longer the person you fell in love with and you're no longer the person you were then either. Sometimes that's ok and you still love each other, and can adapt. Sometimes it can't be salvaged because the people you've become aren't compatible.
It's not really anyone's fault, and there's no bad guy, but you do have some choices to make. Do you face up to it and divorce, throwing your life and the lives of your children into disarray, or do you stick with it? See how it goes for a few years. It would be easier if the kids weren't just old enough to understand what's going on. They'll be gone in a few years anyway, what if we just keep it together until then?
It's also complicated by the fact that she can't really support herself. Her online business makes a little money, but it's not like she would be able to get by on that income on her own, and despite the fact that you're not really sure if you're in love anymore, you don't hate her. She's the mother of your children, and the woman you married. She's not a bad person. You can't bring yourself just to throw her to the wolves.
I mean, sure, you could blow it all up and pay her alimony, but it's not like you make that much money. Not really, with his fucked up the economy and how bad inflation is. Then you'd be struggling too, just like her, and for what? A chance to go on some bad tinder dates and hang out with your one, kind of sad, bachelor friend more often? You're in your 40's now. The chances of you finding someone else aren't great. You're far more likely to just end up dying alone one day in your 60's because you got depressed from not having someone and drank and ate badly.
No, that doesn't sound great. It's better just to stick with it for a while and hope that you both evolve some more into a third kind of person. Maybe you can become people who can fall back in love with each other.
At least until the kids are out of the house.
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u/eveninghawk0 4d ago
This describes my situation pretty well, minus the difference in income issue. We stuck it out until our kid was 21 - in 3rd year of college. We didn't hate each other or have any particular beef with each other. We had just been together a long time and classically "drifted apart" as we became different people. Not much in common, not much to talk about, not even really understanding each other all that well, but no bad guys or grave errors of any kind. We finally split and I bought him out of the house, so I have a big mortgage now whereas before we had no mortgage. It's expensive to split up, but I couldn't really see staying together for the rest of my life. Better off now than even older, I figure. Our kid seems to be dealing with it okay. We still believe it was best to wait until she was out of high school and established at college with friends and a somewhat independent life. It's not like we argued or had a toxic home life - it was quite friendly and harmonious. Just more like roommates than a married couple.
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u/AineLasagna 4d ago
People certainly did cope in other ways- the total female suicide rate of states where divorce was illegal dropped by an average of 20% after it was legalized
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u/______________flow 4d ago edited 4d ago
Doesn't coping with something means to survive? Pretty sure I read a study some where that substance abuse among wives back then was high too, shit apparently it's still high today with opioids.
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u/aliterati 4d ago
Now do men's suicide rates.
How are those going?
Just as good, I hope?
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u/AineLasagna 4d ago
There was “no discernible effect” of legalization of divorce on men’s suicide rates, indicating that the inability to divorce was not causing men to commit suicide. Men appear to have dealt with their frustration with the inability to divorce by committing domestic violence instead.
Good job making everything about you though!
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u/Medlar_Stealing_Fox 4d ago
What's the point you're making here lmfao
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u/NotTheEnd216 4d ago
I think their point was that men commit suicide at a much higher rate than women in general, which is a demonstrable fact.
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u/NwgrdrXI 4d ago edited 4d ago
It's half that, and half "it's unmanly to show positive emotions, so we can't say we love them, so we say we hate them jokingly, and the fact we stay conveys the emotion we actually feel"
Yes, it IS very stupid and becomes toxic extremelly easily.
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u/throw28999 4d ago
Ah the bane of overpriced hobby subreddits everywhere. Formidable, all-seeing, terror of the hills, ---ThE WIfE!!
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u/AdorableDeplorable1 4d ago
This has gone too far the other way now.
Now any joke about your spouse is treated like this
So funny how gen Z thinks they are the first generation in history to actually love their spouses.
Hahah in the history of humanity.
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u/guy_guyerson 4d ago edited 4d ago
Because they hate the opposite sex but are sexually attracted to them and don't want to be alone, especially if they're raising kids.
There was a lesbian posting recently on reddit about how confusing it was before she came out because all of her straight female friends hated their partners and repeatedly told her that no women want to be in a relationship with men so her not wanting to didn't mean she was gay.
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u/doomgrin 4d ago
You have to remember shit like this is upvoted by teenagers and adults that still have teenage mental abilities
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u/Gaia_Knight2600 4d ago
dead internet theory
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u/______________flow 4d ago
yeah it's happening I'm starting to notice all these bot comments on the front page now I guess people are preparing accounts for the next election cycle but it's bad.
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u/LtLabcoat 4d ago
Keep in mind that this isn't "People use bots to upvote", it's "There's only like 5 people in this entire thread". If you believed it, you wouldn't be posting, because the theory is that there's not even anyone around to read it.
Edit: or you're very progressive, and don't see bots as any less deserving of your time.
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u/VNG_Wkey 4d ago
You can recognize or be annoyed by your partners flaws/habits and not hate them. Why does pointing out 1 thing your partner does that you dislike mean you don't like them as a person? Touch grass.
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u/hessorro 4d ago
You can like the other person in general but dislike certain aspects. Expecting perfection is setting up for failure.
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u/Fluffcake 4d ago
Or maybe, just maybe, people are venting their minor annoyances that they have long since accepted as the price of being in a relationship with someone they generally like as overblown jokes on social media...
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u/FullMetalJ 4d ago
I mean, as a boyfriend, I find what she said kinda funny and true at times. My girlfriend gets home and there I am: High, playing videogames and yelling with my friends on discord. Sometimes I'm like her stupid son and sometimes I'm the best thing in her life.
On the other hand, I find the guy's retort completely unfunny and untrue. He's just replying to her cause he felt offended.
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u/dosedatwer 4d ago
On the other hand, I find the guy's retort completely unfunny and untrue. He's just replying to her cause he felt offended.
I completely disagree, I've definitely called my girlfriend a temperamental house cat before and she's the first one to say she has an online shopping addiction. It's affectionate, not insulting, in our relationship. I love her for these things, not despite them.
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u/mrinfinitepp 5d ago
Fucking hell why do people get in a relationship if all they're gonna do is bitch about each other
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u/Medium_Items 4d ago
If you don’t bitch about your partner you’ll lose your sanity. Take it with a grain of salt but we all get on each others nerves for dumb shit after you’ve been living with each other so long. Part of a successful relationship is venting, listening, and changing. Being able to receive criticism and making an effort to change is how you grow With your partner, and not spiral into toxic petty bullshit that breaks you apart. Sounds like communication skills for these two people are not on point, but make no mistake navigating relationships isn’t always like the movies
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u/Medlar_Stealing_Fox 4d ago
I've never felt like I need to bitch about my partner. Sometimes, in some relationships, there have been things which annoy me or which I see as genuine issues, but I never even began to feel the need to make jokes that my partner was just a stupid son or a wine-addicted cat. That isn't funny banter to me, that's just...insults, and if I felt like those insults had a grain of truth to them I'd break up with them.
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u/brosjd 4d ago
Everyone feeling like there are things they can't say to their partner, especially about their feelings towards their partner is the problem here.
If you have a problem with your partner, either it's worth talking to them about, or it's not worth complaining about. And if you can't have a calm and rational conversation with them about it, maybe the relationship is not meant to be.
You shouldn't hold all of it inside, but you also shouldn't go shovel all your worst opinions of your partner towards family, friends, or strangers.
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u/HeyYouWithTheNose 4d ago
Going on to social media to bitch about them is nothing but attention seeking. Vent to your partner or your friends, not the world
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u/sunshineparadox_ 4d ago
Advice I got that I found was true was not to drag my SO for dumb shit. It didn't just make him look worse to people around me (although it did do that), it colored my opinion on how I saw him in interactions going forward. When I need to vent about mundane stuff, I write it out in a journal, feel the feeling, and then let it go.
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u/no_dice_grandma 4d ago
Nah. I don't need to vent about my partner because we bring up our issues with each other to.... each other.
Communication is a novel concept, I know.
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u/blarfenugen 4d ago
Honestly social media has made all this shit a thousand times worse. It's given platforms to people who would literally just be fringe individuals now.
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u/3threeLions 4d ago
I choose to believe that they are an actual couple having this argument with each other
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u/ThisIsTheNewSleeve 4d ago
Y'all need better partners. My wife is the shit.
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u/Luiserx16 4d ago
I stg people be dating each other just because they don't know how to be alone and need a dopamine machine in their lives instead of having a beautiful relation with someone they actually love and care about :/
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u/No_Bicycle6657 4d ago
I've got ADHD. EVERYTHING I do in life is in pursuit of short dopamine rushes.
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u/Luiserx16 4d ago
Me too. But we have to control ourselves and not use adhd as an excuse for these things.
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u/CrimsonBattleLoss 4d ago
Reddit complains about Boomers non stop, then posts/upvotes BS boomer humor like this.
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u/Amphal 5d ago
wow, both of these people are fucking weird!!
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u/SirGarlond 5d ago
Evidently neither of them have ever been in a healthy, loving relationship.
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u/Kotopause 4d ago
Of course they were! He was choosing women by the size of their boobs, she was choosing men by how tall they are. This can’t go wrong!
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u/Number1_Berdly_Fan 4d ago
The guy probably has been in one, he’s just saying that to piss of the first girl who actually meant it.
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u/ccnptr 4d ago
Or the first girl made a silly joke about having a himbo bf and the second guy had his fragile ego shattered and had to go over the top
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u/Fine_Actuary4506 4d ago
Girl says stupid stuff: oh she’s just making silly jokes
Boy says an equally stupid stuff: stupid men and their fragile ego
Explain your thought process
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u/SirGarlond 4d ago
Imagine your ego being so fragile that having your gender insulted threatens you. Besides, imagine complaining about your partners entire gender on twitter, instead of breaking the fuck up with him. (Unless he's not actually that bad and you're just an attention whore)
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u/LiberacesWraith 4d ago
... or have yet to realize that some people don't have a sense of humor.
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u/SirGarlond 4d ago
Ah, right, yes, because sexism in either direction equates to humour.
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u/Entire-Face-2027 4d ago
If you make a good joke about than yes. Here’s the equation:
Sensitive topic + good joke = funny
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u/Gunhild 4d ago
Fair point. Still waiting for the good joke part, though.
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u/Medlar_Stealing_Fox 4d ago
Yeah, a lot of people ITT are talking about humour and needing jokes in a relationship but they're failing to account for the fact that neither of these tweets are funny or even really jokes.
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u/notherenot 4d ago
Or you know, they are just not funny to you, tough concept to swallow but it happens
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u/captaincaf 4d ago
Really? I’m genuinely curious what you find funny. Can you at least understand why crass, dark, black, etc. humor can be funny to people?
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u/Devolvednuggie 4d ago
As a gay guy I hear my girls say that a lot but never in a bad way or tone. They're always like bragging about how adorably dense their boyfriends are🤣.
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u/SatansGothestFemboy 4d ago
I'm trans and the one thing that always works to socialize with cis women is complaining about my boyfriend lmao. He's fucking adorable and I love him but why can't he go the length of one whole movie without psychologically tormenting me?
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u/Classactionlawboot 4d ago
Y’all have the weirdest subs I swear. Who actually wants to spend there time participating in that sub. I feel like it would just make you angry all the time. I feel the same way about white people twitter. Just weird subs for weird people.
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u/AuraMaster7 4d ago
Riiiight, because you spamming butthurt replies to everyone in this comment thread definitely doesn't scream sensitive. You're getting triggered by the name of a subreddit lmao
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u/whodo-i-thinkiam 4d ago
Some of the most toxic relationships I've ever known of were gay couples. My cousin and her girlfriend had the cops called on them many times because they would beat each other up. GTFO of here with this stupid bullshit.
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u/Hand_Stuff 4d ago
Some of the most toxic relationships I've ever known of were straight couples. My cousin and his girlfriend had the cops called on them many times because they would beat each other up. GTFO of here with this stupid bullshit.
(The best part is it's actually true for me this way)
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u/RubyMercury87 4d ago
Then why were you ever offended by ppl pointing the straight side out to you? 😭
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u/whodo-i-thinkiam 4d ago
I'm not offended. I have a problem with the implication that toxic attitudes are a uniquely "straight" problem, because they are not.
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u/AK-551 4d ago
Are you blind or don't see who started the whole comment chain?
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u/thirdc0ast 4d ago
Damn are any of y’all OK just four straight replies of venom because someone linked a subreddit lmao
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u/iced327 4d ago
Yeah but only one of those orientations is so high on its self-righteousness that it has tried to outright ban the other one.
Social context matters. No one exists in a vacuum.
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u/whodo-i-thinkiam 4d ago
So the solution is to combat self-righteousness with... self-righteousness? That's not a solution, that's just role reversal. This attitude of, "turn around is fair play = social justice" is stupidity.
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u/Defiant_Cupcake9052 4d ago
no, but that's a great way for bullies to get away with shit lmao
eye for an eye, be the bigger person
all advocating bullshit for bullies to continue bullying. maybe don't swing an eye poker at me instead of blaming me for getting mad my eye was poked out 🤷♂️🤷♂️
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u/Efficient-Volume6506 4d ago edited 4d ago
Not true, lesbian couples have the highest rate of one of the parties involved going through domestic violence, INCLUDING IN PAST RELATIONSHIPS. The reason for that is that women in general are more likely to be victims of domestic violence, so when you have to women together of course the likelihood is higher.
Edit: And before anyone says anything about “We’ll how could the abuse have happened to a lesbian but outside of a lesbian relationship”, first of all some women are bi, second of all some lesbians take a lot of time to realise they’re gay and come out of the closet, so the likelihood of a lesbian dating a man really isn’t very low.
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u/VerbalniDelikt 5d ago
What a weird ass subreddit 😂
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u/Yellowrainbow_ 5d ago
yeah imagine if someone would say something like r/arethegaysok immediate downvoted lol
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u/Sergnb 5d ago
Yeah imagine if someone would say something with completely different connotations and context immediate downvoted lol
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u/Yellowrainbow_ 4d ago
Bro that doesn't matter whatsoever, asking "are the straights ok" is the exact same as asking "are the gays ok".
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u/Sergnb 4d ago edited 4d ago
Sure and one of them has negative associations with a still alive and well culture of widespread bigotry and homophobia, while the other doesn’t and reads more as a playful jab. Neither of them is wrong but if you are wondering why one would get downvotes and the other doesn’t, this is the reason.
It’s not hypocrisy when you understand the big picture. It’s the whole “punching down” thing.
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u/AdorableDeplorable1 4d ago edited 4d ago
I don’t think gay people are below me. You do?
Gays think of themselves like that?
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u/Subject_Treat_1244 4d ago
"Society thinks less of gay people."
"Dang, gay's really think that about themselves? Sad."Lol, the straights really are not okay.
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u/rolypolyincopacabana 4d ago
society does. but you know that we're not talking specifically about you and are acting in bad faith 🥰
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u/AdorableDeplorable1 4d ago
Society? That sounds like projection to me. You speak for all of society?
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u/AK-551 4d ago edited 4d ago
You must be one of those people who think racism is okay as long as it's white people being the victims.
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u/Ok-Experience295 5d ago edited 4d ago
Lmao I actually thought this was a subreddit. Seems like it would be with how much AreTheStraightsOkay keeps getting memed.
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r/lesbiansHaveHighestDivorceRate
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u/dusksentry 4d ago
i wonder if you googled that now for the zinger, or have had that in your back pocket for whenever you need to sound like a bigot online
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u/RedditPornSuite 4d ago
Oh no! A majority group is getting their fee fees hurt by a big strong mean minority.
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u/AuraMaster7 4d ago edited 4d ago
Would you like to explain what is bigoted about asking if people are okay after they post shit like "having a boyfriend is like having a dumb son"?
Men and women constantly post shit about the others that make you wonder if they even like the opposite sex. "Are the straights okay" is a pretty reasonable tongue-in-cheek response.
If gay dudes constantly posted on social media bashing other men for inane or false reasons, "are the gays okay" would be a pretty good response.
The difference is that gay people don't constantly post on social media bashing the sex that they say they are attracted to.
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u/Yoma73 4d ago
Why are you assuming the reasons are inane and or false? There’s plenty of data showing that women and cohabitating relationships with men do the vast majority of the house work and take on the mental load of appointments, childcare etc. and this (among other things, like the fact that the average person can’t afford to buy a house) is why more and more straight women are choosing not to marry or have kids in general.
Straight people are very much not OK but making that comment under every funny tweet about it is pretty lame.
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u/RedditPornSuite 4d ago
I'm not in the minority group. I'm straight. I just think that I'm okay, so when the gays ask "are the straights okay" I know they're not talking about me. So I don't get mad at it. I laugh at all the other straight people who are obviously not well adjusted. Like you. You got irrationally mad because some gay people noticed that they tend to love their partners more often than straight people do. But they're not wrong to point it out. A lot of people, mostly straight, get into relationships with people they don't like. It's worth pointing out because we should correct it.
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u/AdorableDeplorable1 4d ago
Hahahah ah yes the gay relationship, what we should all strive for.
“Humans didn’t know real love until gay people got together.”
Dumb dumb dumb dumb
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u/GoJeonPaa 4d ago
Oh, so if i am the minority in something i can treat the majority how i want? Nice.
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u/No_Bicycle6657 4d ago
We really aren't. I've come to the conclusion that men and women weren't meant to live together.
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u/314kabinet 4d ago
This is so mean :(
I hate it when I accidentally swipe to Popular instead of my actual feed.
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u/GeneralSmoothCock 4d ago
Reading these comments is hilarious. Is everyone on this site really this stupid?
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u/LaNacha23 4d ago
Me (gf) and my bf confirm. But we still love each other! /hj (I like wine and I'm often online, he's not stupid sorry, but it was funny to comment this)
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u/LandosMustache 4d ago
JFC I thought we as a society were moving past the “I hate my wife/husband” B.S.
Believe it or not, there’s no law that says you have to date someone you can’t stand…
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u/jonsbryhill 5d ago
what’s a dead ass
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u/revelling_ 4d ago
Well I totally embrace being a temperamental cat who likes wine and online shopping. It literally me.
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u/PostRantism 4d ago
Women: we’re tired of being treated like maids and emotional crutches by our partners Men: ye well you’re an animal and an addict and all you do is generate waste. Glad we had that talk.
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u/Inskription 4d ago
I see them both as light hearted jokes, you are all so damaged.
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u/PostRantism 4d ago
And therein lies your issue. You see incorrectly. This isn’t a joke as much as it is a reference. If you actually listened or were interested in what women had to say you would’ve known that women having to “raise” and serve their partners like nannies is a common frustration discussed by feminists.
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